How dare I be so mean to me
Don’t I know who I am?
I’m the only one out of 5 kids
To graduate high school
Or go to college
Or graduate college
I got 4s and 5s on my APs
I got 3s on all my ATIs
I’ve got awards and trophies and
Medals and scholarships and shit
(But no matter how much I exercise
I can never look how I want
It would cost $10,000 or more
To make my stomach flat again
And I can’t stop thinking about how
He told everyone it wasn’t
His fault he played me I was
SO FAT,
And obviously anyone can empathize
With throwing a fat woman out
For a smaller one;
Everyone understands that
Obviously)
When I was in middle school they
Put my name on that board
For doing the most sit-ups
In 60 seconds
It stayed there for years
The men at church would
Stand round me and say
“She’s a real looker, any man would be
Lucky to catch a girl like her”
(But why do I keep thinking about
That time my daughter’s father told me
It wasn’t his fault I was SO FAT
When I was 8 months pregnant
Why would he be attracted to me?
‘No one would be’
And how he warned all his friends
Not to look during childbirth or they’d
‘Never be attracted to that girl again’
I thought I was over all of that,
Why do I keep ruminating
On how unfair it feels
That his fat ass
Married a flat, barren stomach?)
And my brain, and my brain is being
So mean
Repeating all the worst things
Stop it, brain
I took the pill
I went to the gym
I ate the salad
I hiked the hike
I painted
I made myself up
I colored my hair
Why do I still kind of want to die?
What do you want from me, brain?
I can’t make you look 19 again
And I can’t change the past
Sorry
🥺 🤗
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big hugs. you are a beautiful person. Body size isn’t everything, don’t let anyone define you by your body size, your a very lovely and kind, caring beautiful person. ❤ ❤
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Thank you Carol Anne ❤️❤️❤️
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